Monday, September 16, 2013

Book Review: Anatomy of a Boyfriend by Daria Snadowsky

Monday, September 16, 2013
Anatomy of a Boyfriend (Anatomy, #1)
Genre: Contemporary
Publisher: Ember (Random House)
Series: Anatomy of Boyfriend #1
Age Group: Young Adult/New Adult
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Source: From author in exchange for an honest review
Before this all happened, the closest I'd ever come to getting physical with a guy was playing the board game Operation. Okay, so maybe that sounds pathetic, but it's not like there were any guys at my high school who I cared to share more than three words with, let alone my body.
Then I met Wes, a track star senior from across town. Maybe it was his soulful blue eyes, or maybe my hormones just started raging. Either way, I was hooked. And after a while, he was too. I couldn't believe how intense my feelings became, or the fact that I was seeing—and touching—parts of the body I'd only read about in my Gray's Anatomy textbook. You could say Wes and I experienced a lot of firsts together that spring. It was scary. It was fun. It was love.
And then came the fall.
First off, a round of applause to Daria Snadowsky for the (sometimes funny, sometimes cute, sometimes AWKWARD) way she wrote about sex. It's unflinchingly honest and full of all the shyness and excitedness of being a teenager. Also, kudos to her for writing about a female character who explores her sexuality unabashedly- I mean, how many stories (including many of the classics taught in school) involve a male character figuring out sex. Compare that number to books with girl protagonists. It's stacked much higher in the boy's favor, which is why Anatomy of a Boyfriend is so important.

Dominique is smart. She's safe. And she also likes exploring sex with her boyfriend, and that doesn't make her a "slut" or worth any less as a person. Heck, I'd go as far to say that she becomes empowered. Even her best friend, Amy, who is more freewheeling with boys is never shamed. It's so utterly refreshing.

Also, I have to say that Snadowsky has created one of the most realistic teenage boy characters I've ever read about in Wes. He doesn't say or do all of the right things; he can be awkward and shy and selfish. That doesn't mean is he isn't sweet or cute other times, but let's face it: a lot of high school boys aren't like Noah Shaw or William Herondale or even (I'm sorry, but) Augustus Waters. Wes fits in with how realistic the rest of the novel is and, as I said above, it is really refreshing.

Anatomy of a Boyfriend does something really cool, too, in that it takes place during Dom's transition from high senior to college student. We get to see her at both points in her life and I think it's great that that transition period is showcased, since it so rarely is. (Although with New Adult, maybe we'll see more? And there are these books set in college.)

My only complaint- and it's a pretty small one- is that I was a little confused about the setting. The thing is, this is in no way something that could be fixed. Let me explain: I thought Anatomy had come out sooner, but it turns out it was published in 2007, back when AIM was still mostly popular. But when I was reading the book, I thought it was set closer to 2013. Thus the whole time, I was so confused thinking, what teenagers use AIM and email so much? (Although I love emailing, to be honest.) Just goes to show how much technology has evolved in almost 7 short years!

Despite that (truly insignificant) qualm, Anatomy is a very quick read and a worthwhile one, too! (Just know that it was published in 2007 so you don't scratch your head over AIM, haha!)
*4 stars*
For Fans Of: Jersey Angel by Beth Ann Bauman
How do you feel about technology in contemporary books?

10 comments:

  1. That approach to sex (teen or otherwise) is incredibly refreshing! And it's terrible that it *is* "refreshing" instead of what usually happens with girls who experiment or have sex (both in books and out).

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    1. Seriously! YA Interrobang actually did a whole article on that today: Sexual Purity in YA

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  2. I've heard this book mentioned a ton, but when I looked at the blurb I wasn't all that interested. But this sounds awesome! I was just commenting on someone else's blog about how many books in the YA category seem to promote rape culture or abusive relationships (oh but it wasn't his fault! He didn't mean it!) - granted it's almost always paranormal, hence my distaste for it these days. But from what you've said about this book, I'm all about this! I'd definitely adding it to my TBR.

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    1. Yay, I'm so glad you're going to give Anatomy a go! It definitely steers clear of the dangerous tropes in so many other books!

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  3. I love the fact that the author realistically portrays sex and also that she's written a realistic teenage boy. I'm going to have to read this book soon! ~Pam

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    1. It's really refreshing! Hope you like it!

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  4. This looks really good! I've already added it to my TBR at Goodreads.

    I love the use of technology in books. It's so prevalent in real life that it seems silly to think that characters in books wouldn't use it too, but on the other hand it doesn't take long for it to make the book sound really dated. I read a book a few months ago with characters who kept emailing each other and I thought it was weird that they didn't just text -- even though I don't have a cell phone myself! And I think this one was supposed to be set in 2013...One of the characters did have an explanation for it when she was asked about it though.

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    1. I wish people would just email each other instead of text, haha! If only that were still the case!

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  5. I am so glad you liked this. I really enjoyed Daria's writing and Dom's character SO much that I'm (not so secretly hoping) that she is going to write another one soon. I hope you are going to check out Single Girl. I actually read these out of order. In the end I related more to the first just because I was in a relationship my senior year & I felt the parental portrayals were so familiar but eee, Single Girl is super fun too. How great are these covers? :)

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    1. I'm definitely planning on reading Single Girl! And the covers are great!!

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